My parents' default position was that we were the problem -not the others. I actually think that is the better way to go.

My dad is in the hospital - he wasn't feeling good and then his apple watch alerted him to his heart rate being up to 190 (he was just in bed reading) so they went to urgent care who called ambulance and now he is hooked up to all sorts of things -the tests are so far inconclusive -but he is raving about the watch now to any poor intern, rn, lpn, and candy striper he can according to his wife