She actually sent me the pictures of the documents and said, "You're never getting these back."

Our oldest requested his birth certificate repeatedly for months after that, telling her he needed it for a passport application to cross the Canadian border. He didn't wait for me to continue to argue with his mom. He went and reported his I.D.s as stolen by his mother to the police. She dropped off his birth certificate at the house several months after that.

I don't remember her dropping off anything else.

I still question myself. Right now I'm going, "Did she give me the other stuff? Do I not remember? Where would I have put that stuff? Why would I have gone through the trouble to have everything replaced if she gave them to me?"