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Originally Posted by divine1966
Is she claiming that sending you pics of documents is the same as giving you actual documents?
It sounds that she’s preparing for the courts by portraying herself as a dutiful mother and fully cooperating soon to be ex spouse. She wants you to look like you aren’t cooperating.
I hope you are saving everything she ever sent you as well as have evidence of her not replying to your inquiries about important things.
Oh she definitely tried to claim the youngest and is now playing dumb
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ITA.
Sounds like she's trying to do damage control. Planting the little seeds of doubt wherever she can.
She convinced you to second-guess and doubt yourself for so long that you're susceptible to it. Sometimes keeping a journal of short notations is helpful when it comes to this kind of gaslighting. Concrete evidence for yourself, by date, about what you did or didn't do, and about what she did or didn't do.