I completely understand the place you are coming from. That would drive me crazy, weigh-ins in groups and people comparing how much they gained or lost, and you want to be the one who gained the least or lost weight. I still have memories of being in 6th grade gym class, we all got weighed for the yearly physical fitness test. I developed a lot faster than my friends. Everyone was sitting in the girls' dressing room comparing weights, and I had the highest weight among my group of friends, and I was so embarassed and ashamed about my weight