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brian10x
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Location: Tucson,AZ
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Ribbon Sep 23, 2024 at 09:30 PM
 
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Originally Posted by SquarePegGuy View Post
Welcome @brian10x! I have no experience with BP, but if it is anxiety as @raspberrytorte suggested, then maybe the treatments for phobias might help.

Is she able to visit you at your home? If yes, is she able to stay all day? If yes, is she able to sleep over?

Another approach, would she consider leaving an extra set of toiletries at your place? Or an outfit or two?
>>Well, not exactly....

She's , well, married. He's a lot older and she married him 13 years ago purely for security. She can't visit or stay over. Good thought though.

I'm trying to get her to look for solutions, but the only thing that paralyzes her more than the fear of change is procrastination, again, from being bipolar.

If I can just get her through the fear of change ONE DAY, we can start our lives together.

Thank you for your help. Anything is greatly appreciated!
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