Thanks. She also didn't call me yesterday -- probably a sign she is pissed.

She used to do things for me (and some others) at work and when I needed her she didn't do them because of her family issues. So we fought for and got assistance so we don't need her anymore. I hoped she would use the time to get on top of things and be productive. But no. She is always alleging she could get fired and our workplace usually doesn't do that, but if she doesn't stop she is going to get fired.

She got a new boss and he is her friend and I urged her to use this opportunity to do a good job for him and that could help her...but she is not doing it. She is making her victimhood come true.

I told her she seems to think she is in charge of anything. She isn't. She needs to accept that... but she won't.