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Originally Posted by Blueberrybook
I absolutely agree with this. She should get a divorce scary as that change might be to her. Could it be the fact that she is married holding her back from moving in with you? Maybe on some level she feels a moral tie to stay in her marriage. However, she needs to cut that tie first I'm sorry to say. If she does want to spend the rest of her life with you she should be willing to take that step.
Change is hard I know. I struggle with it too. But in this case it is necessary for her to move on from her marriage.
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She can't get a divorce and move out on her own. She doesn't have the ability to be that independent, even for a short period. She has to move out in secret and divorce after the move.
However, after 15 months of gentle coaxing and all the help I can offer, I am running out of steam. My optimism and energy levels are dropping to critical lows.
Its now up to her, and she is always tired and scared, and I see no way she can ever change