If she'd betray her current husband, she'd betray you. There are lots of advantages to being single. I'm divorced and i'd never get married again. I like the independence and freedom and never having to negotiate and compromise over every little thing and not having to answer to anyone but myself and making all my own decisions. You're a man of years, you didn't get here by not being able to take care of yourself. Why complicate things at this late stage of the game?