Hi Ana,
I'm sorry you're struggling with this.
What does 'more support' mean to you?
A few years ago I asked R to write a couple of messages on post-it notes, a few months apart.
It took a lot for me to request them, but they helped at the time.
I'm currently trying to figure out what I need from R in order to feel safe with her again after the carnage over the summer.
Understanding what 'more support' means for you (not expecting you to answer here) may help you work out what is OK to need.
Hope that helps,
Lost
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