Thank you LT. All good suggestions you made. I don’t know if he is content with the way things are-I know I need to have that talk with him. It’s hard because on my end I literally have no desire to be around him. And it’s not like I’m mad at him for something. I’m not. I mean I get frustrated because he is messy. I wish he would keep his things more tidy in the home or whatnot-but that’s not a marriage-ending issue. Part of me thinks he doesn’t want to make an effort to change it because he doesn’t bother just like I don’t. In your marriage you have your daughter as a common denominator between the two of you so even in your times of rut in your own marriage you have her that kind of ties you guys together. We did have a lot of friends throughout our 20’s and even early 30’s but all the couples kind of went their separate ways. Most went and built families. I think I have a lot to consider before I do anything drastic.