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Originally Posted by brian10x
>>Well, not exactly....
She's , well, married. He's a lot older and she married him 13 years ago purely for security. She can't visit or stay over. Good thought though.
I'm trying to get her to look for solutions, but the only thing that paralyzes her more than the fear of change is procrastination, again, from being bipolar.
If I can just get her through the fear of change ONE DAY, we can start our lives together.
Thank you for your help. Anything is greatly appreciated!
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well i can only speak from experience, i too have bipolar with anxiety and i do procrastinate ALOT and the thing that we have found works is to just do it! like dont tell her what youre doing just start moving stuff. when he does that to me at first i get mad and tell him to take me home but he always finds an excuse and so i kinda have to go along with it.I hope you figure out a way to help her