Oh ok well if she works full time, then how can’t she handle daily tasks and why does she need a man to support her. You said she’s not even able to live alone. If she works full time with many responsibilities, there’s no need to live with man she doesn’t even like. It seems that the story changed somewhat.
Granddad?
People who are afraid of change and rely on routine would never take on secret affairs and continue it for over a year. No way no how they’d partake on such things. Nope. They’d never take a risk. They’d be too terrified. This person is playing you. Or you are playing us?