"So why aren't you doing the things you usually do? You haven't been doing anything for weeks."

"Because, as I mentioned weeks ago, I've been freaking depressed"

"And you weren't depressed last week?"

"Yes, I was. But I couldn't cancel the trip"

"And you're still depressed now?"

"Yes I think I am, but maybe I'm just getting used to it now"

"Sure."

Conversation with my wife.