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Default Oct 06, 2024 at 10:36 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Discombobulated View Post
It’s not for me to tell you what to do HH but I’d urge you to explore how you feel within yourself after looking at their social media? Do you feel better or worse? If the answer is worse (I’m going to guess it may be) then staying away from their pages at least or possibly even social media altogether might be a good idea. What do you feel?
I feel it's best and healthiest NOT to look -

admittedly and sheepishly I can say it's very compulsive and obsessive on my part - I know it's not a good idea -

but I want to see if he looks happy. And he hasn't posted ANY public pics of them on HIS profile, only SHE is posting pics public photos of them.

What I also find to be interesting is he changed his background image yesterday, and it's a photo that he had taken when he was with me, of a flower garden when we picked sunflowers together. What does THAT say?

Not only THAT, but photos of us together are still up on his profile, in his profile photos section - like 4 of them. So that's interesting too. Why hasn't he removed them?

Please just humor me for a moment - what do you think all of these things mean or say?

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