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Old Oct 07, 2024, 04:02 AM
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I posted on my facebook abuse support group about it. They all basically said to not let my emotions get the best of me, to hold my head high, and to ignore him/them if I run into them in town. It's so freaking hard. I feel he is still abusing me, even a year and a half after our divorce, by moving so close to me and by being able to keep a close eye on me. It's so very triggering. I cannot help my anxieties when they come up. I still want to confront him in front of her about moving into my neighborhood. It's sooooo hard not to want to do that.
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