How does he cook if he cannot use the stove? Slow cooker? Oven? Is he sleeping during the day or you are eating during the night? Why is he sleeping?

Can he cook a batch of food in like a slow cooker and you’ll all have food to eat? It seems that between three adults you could figure some type of food routine? Maybe cook bigger batches of food so you eat better and cheaper? Make small containers to warm up in the microwave? If you are afraid of the kitchen, put a microwave in the hallway? Rooms?

Is it claustrophobia issue with inability to be in a kitchen or something else? I’ve met people with all kind of issues but this one seems very unusual. That’s when vocational rehab could help to teach the whole family how to manage food and kitchen