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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t believe she has a power to destroy your life. It sounds a bit much. You have more in your life than your t. How does she get so much power
Not sure how you can destroy her career either.
I am not sure what purpose such conversations serve except keeping you stressed out and attached.
Not sure how she’s trapped in this relationship. Like you mean she can’t drop you as a client without being accused of abandoning you?
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I can understand the "trapped" fear. For example, my T has told me before "I can't ethically abandon you," which includes (from what he's said) termination without very clear cause--he's said I'd have to do something like assault him or threaten his life (he's said that's the only time he unilaterally terminated a client).
So I've asked him before (a couple times) whether he's felt "trapped" with me, like he's stuck with me unless/until I decide to leave. He's reassured me that he's never felt trapped or stuck.
I imagine that's what it's about for you, Scarlet?