You are not alone. You are in this community @kittlesonhr. There are support groups you may bee interested in.

Type in search suipport groups for abandoned wives.

You also may want to see a lawyer and protect any assets like a house that may be in both names. You can go to the bank and if you have a joint account set up a personal account only you can access. Another precaution is to put a credit freeze on all three credit reporting agencie Equifax Transunion and Experiian in case he tries to take out credit in your
name.

If he has a key to get in you could have the locks rekeyed.

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