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Default Oct 15, 2024 at 10:25 PM
 
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
Interesting! I would say, enabling involves judgment, by a third party? Support is given in a judgment-free zone.
That is not how I would define it. Enabling helps people stay stuck. Enabling is telling someone what they want or hope to hear (or I suppose what you think they want or hope to hear) - not what they necessarily should hear or know in order to get to where they want to be.

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