Don't worry. You're not turning your husband into a bad guy by controlling your meds. My husband controls mine because I have an awful habit of getting impulsive when I don't feel good and taking too many, so we have a med box. I just have a weeks worth out at a time, which is just fine with me!
Did you tell your psychiatrist your issue with the pills? Tell her AGAIN if you already have. Is there another psychiatrist in the practice you could get a second opinion from? I know it's hard to find a psychiatrist.
I'm sorry you're having such issues with her! You really shouldn't be!