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I think the behavior has been extinguished.

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(((sunrise)))

I wouldn't like to be reprimanded. But I don't know, being left to infer what his boundaries are isn't fun either. When I first wrote my T a letter I worried a lot about if I was breaking some therapy rule. When she didn't respond to it, I got really confused and the worry increased. When I finally when back for the next session, I couldn't stand not know what her rules were and ended up asking her point blank, "Can I write you things?"

Maybe in your next session you can ask him something like: If I have a pressing issue that I would like to discuss with you in a timely manner, what is the best way for me to convey this and get a response from you?