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Cantholdmyrage
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Default Oct 18, 2024 at 11:22 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Yaowen View Post
I'm so sorry you are in that situation. I can definitely identify with you. Wish I knew what to say to help.

My father was consumed by self-hate and deep seated self-loathing and he projected it onto others in order to relieve himself of the pain. I didn't really realize this at a deep level until I was 69 years old. I think he suffered from undiagnosed mental illness. He made life into a living nightmare for so many people including me. I'm so sorry you are in similar circumstances!!!
I personally have mental health problems as well, and I feel sometimes that my mom would use that to take advantage of me and label me as the problem. Other than that, thank you for your support.
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