I've got a problem with intimacy. Maybe it's not directly connected with intimacy, but it is something that my wife and i struggle with.
we even have a difficult time talking about it-the "it" being my inability to bring her pleasure.
she doesn't have a problem pleasuring me.I don't have a problem receiving the pleasure, but I can't seem to be able to offer her the same. It's confusing. She says I'm a loving person in every other way, but need to bring her my love from the heart.
i thought i was doing that.
instead, tonight she's in bed upset and I'm left wondering what i can do to please her.
we both struggle with anxiety and take meds for it. I'm now second guessing myself and what i mean to her (and her to me.)
Worn out and tired tonight.