I think it's good to talk to her about anything that you're concerned about.

Some T's don't encourage much of a connection. Some types of therapies don't encourage a connection.

I'm wondering if you're thinking that 5 months is long enough for a connection to happen, but things take however long they take, and that's okay. It takes time to build the foundation of trust sometimes.

It took me nearly a year to talk much in therapy. Then one day I decided that I could trust her and I would talk more. I had to feel the trust before that could happen.

I hope you'll talk with T about your concern.