I to am struggling with a weight problem. I was my thinnest when I had a job that required me to move. I worked this one job in a warehouse (I swear it was at least a mile long!). I had to go back and forth from the office in the back to the office up front all day. I lost weight fast and didn't even have to think about it. Now I work at home (so I can raise my children) I'm on my computer all day so my bottom has taken the shape and size of my chair lol. I know how you feel, I have an terrible self image. It's funny I used to be a personal trainer now I need someone to get me motivated to move. I wish you the best of luck.