Bless your heart! If I could I'd take you out for a little "jinnyann" time! you know, just the usual retail therapy and cusine pampering that you deserve, we could talk about ways for you to set some new boundries with people, and take a look at re-igniting your sense of purpouse and meaning in life...you're not just an asscessory to other people! over cherry cheescake and coffee I'd reccomend T.D. Jakes book "repositioning yourself" it's wonderfully empowering! they say that it's the thought that counts...feel any better?