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Originally Posted by Yaowen
I feel very much as you do. I seldom want to be in person with people. And if I am with people, I want to know what we are going to do ahead of time. No surprises please. I know it must seem selfish, but I have to prioritize my mental health. Bad things happen when I don't prioritize my mental health. I wish I know what to say to help.
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Yes I know the feeling. As I age I get more and more annoyed with people who won't tell me what we are doing.
I don't know what happened with my eye but it was better by the end of the next day. Eventually she came back for my birthday and I think we are done because she has family constraints.
None of it was enjoyable for me.