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Originally Posted by RockyRoad007
There are so many ways to use your flower.
In my darkest moments, I would create a rose in my imagination and put it in front of me with the face of the flower facing my heart area. I would ask it to take my pain and sadness. I would allow all my pain and sorrows to pour into this rose. I would then blow this rose up and feel the blessings rain down on me.
This is not a one and done, I had to do it a lot, but over time the layers of my anguish were released from me.
Create a giant lotus around your house where you are living.
Another thing you could do which you may find hard is to bless your brother. Not out loud, but in your mind. And with heart intention, not mindlessly. You can say "bless you" or "May you be blessed", whichever feels more natural to you. You may find this could be transformative to the whole household. Your brother is in dire need of blessings, he is in pain.
I like "may you be blessed" when I don't want to feel like a hypocrite blessing a jerk, but they are still being blessed. When you bless another, you are also blessing yourself.
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@ RockyRoad007
I always prayed, that God will help us live in peace, my brother and I. And I always pray that he will stop being so psychotic. But after five months of praying so far nothing has happened. I get down on my knees and pray before I go to bed, that God will make him stop. But then the next time I see him again at dinner, he will go crazy with snarky remarks.
I’m going to get a tattoo of a small lotus on my wrist soon. So when I pray during dinner, I can see it and use it as a shield to protect me. Being able to visually see the flower will help me not pop off on my brother. And have a screaming cussing match. My brother doesn’t believe in God at all. That is why he’ll fight with me, even if I’m mid prayer, with my eyes closed and my head bowed. It’s very rude if you ask me. Thanks for helping me with the flower suggestion. I will imagine the lotus surrounding me, protecting me from the negative energy. And then letting it blow away. Maybe this is God’s answer to my prayers, to get help from all of you kind people. 🙏🏼🩵