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Poohs220 · 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by kittlesonhr

Hi Friends,

Let me first start by saying this is a shout to the void, and I don't expect a single person to respond. Part of my DBT Therapy is to ensure that I make public my behavior with people that won't judge me. What a liberating feeling.

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I lied to my partner about orgasming. He now believes that by lying to him about orgasming, I was lying to him about who I was in sex.

I told him it was because I had a bit of an addiction to porn, and every-time I would watch it, I would get off, and then it made it hard during real sex to come but I was embarrassed and didn't tell him.

I actually understand what you are going through. I never thought it was that serious that my husband would leave me if he found out. I watch porn all the time and masturbate. When it comes to the real thing, i have faked it but a lot of times I picture what I saw in the videos and then I can get off. I've went as far as putting my ear buds in and secretly watching porn and he never knew. Again, I never thought to mention it because I'm sure my husband has other things on his mind while having sex with me. But I totally get the embarrassing part, and I don't think you're addicted... it's just something you like to watch and do while you're home alone.... and I'm always home alone.