Oh god, I know this one so well....only last night one of my 15 yr old daughters was threatened and told she is going to get jumped at sch tomorrow...I feel so powerless I asked if she wants me to ring the sch and she said not unless they carry out the threat...i've tried to stay strong on the outside for her but think my old experiences as a child are getting all caught up and I'm projecting things that haven't happened yet...I am so with you on this and wish I had an answer...