Yesterday at 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
That's more gaslighting behavior. And she cannot be trusted with your personal information. I would stop telling her things and I would start behaving like you can't trust her.
I am really curious to hear what that counselor's thoughts were on making it painful for your partner to keep doing it - that sounds like retaliation of some sort - or stooping to a level of returning the pain. Not sure if that's the best approach - with abusers, it only makes the abuse and harmful behavior worse - upon you, the victim.
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I suspect it probably has to do with setting boundaries.
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