I hear you @MuddyBoots - you want to help but being the matchmaker might freak out that lady totally.

My limited experience chatting with people suffering from Schiophrenia is I cannot change their mind so I live in their world and suspend my rational thinking and just listen to them. If he keeps asking you to tell her you might say that is a very emotional thing and you need to find the right time and place to tell her.

He sounds like his heart is in a good place and I would try to just listen. That is my take for what it is worth.

CANDC

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