It is important to go to a good psychiatrist or psychologist, and it is sometimes hard to know whether you found the right one. Because of my sister’s abuse, I had a very difficult teenage years and early twenties. I started to see therapists in my late twenties, and my finest experience a psychiatrist was at a university hospital. A resident and a couple of med students were assigned to me . When I spoke about my home, and the conversation got to my sister, and how she was beating me (which was very difficult), the resident and medical students thought it was very funny and started laughing. Then, the resident asked me why I didn’t fight back? It was very triggering for me and it took me months to go back to a therapist , but not that place.