hey everyone just found this forum. needed to share about being called today and how it made me feel. my mother was abusive and now that she's clean it's like its all supposed to go away. Ive been distant for years now but she called today because she ran into my friend and her family at the polls. I'm glad my friends okay but I feel really weird. I have anxiety bad and feel like I'm supposed to talk to her now even though after years of therapy I know I'm not obligated.