I did go to session yesterday. I have never missed a session without good reason (e.g. surgery, sickness). There were three pains we talked about. First one she labeled "over and over again" pain. It's about how she will continually get pregnant over and over again because she's not choosing effective methods. She said she will do it differently this next time. I actually forgot the other two even though she repeated it for me like 3 times. We talked about why she couldn't have just told me that she couldn't predict her family situation when she decided to use less effective birth control. I wouldn't have needed or wanted to know why. And I wouldn't have felt betrayed having this sprung upon me. I wouldn't have liked it, but at least I'd be prepared. She told me going forward, she will include me/tell me more about her choices. Not because I'm nosey or think I deserve it, but because it gives me information to make decisions of my own.