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Default Nov 07, 2024 at 04:46 AM
 
An ex came after me on facebook yesterday regarding the election outcome. I was upset about it and posted about my upset, and he kept coming after me in the comments. I made a few posts,. and he commented on every one. And when I tried to shut him down because he was baiting me to get into a political debate and argument? He kept going, even after I told him end of discussion.

I felt bullied and targeted by him. I only dated him for one month last year and broke up with him because he had way too much negative drama around him regarding several female ex's. After we broke up, I found out that he's broken two women's arms and is severely abusive.

And now he's come after me online. This is after recently telling me that he enjoyed being with me and cares for me. I didn't take the bait then and now he came after me and essentially attacked me online.

I am only "friends" with him on facebook because we travel in the same music and social circles and I want to keep the peace and not cause waves or drama. Plus, he calls ALL his past ex's "crazy" and "unstable". I bet if I blocked him or unfriended him, that he will start rumors that I too am unstable and crazy.

I deleted yet another obnoxious baiting type of comment of his just this morning! He is STILL coming at me, even after I deleted all his comments and after trying to nip it.

I feel very targeted and it's triggering me.

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