Thank you CNS and LT. It always helps to hear from others on here!
LT, no we are in Europe so I don’t think it could have been that. But it is not unlikely that she slept badly for whatever reason and didn’t get up in time to do makeup etc but still felt able to work.
Usually if I’m slow to open up she will say something like ‘can you tell I’m a bit off today ‘ and I’ll say ‘yep’ and we won’t take on any big topics. She didn’t do that this time when I was hesitant and she genuinely responded well to everything so I will have to just trust that all was ok