You’ve had some excellent replies here, if you’re still reading this. Has any of it made sense?

I can only add, do you genuinely have an issue with empathy? Do you have an ability to put yourself in another’s shoes? Can you imagine how it feels to be another person?

Because imagining how a woman may view this situation is the key to understanding and changing your perspective.

How do you think a woman may feel to be judged because of her relationship history? How might you feel if someone told you that you were carrying dna from past partners? Would you accept that judgement as valid? Or would you question it?

Lastly, would you find a person who viewed your gender as contaminated by their sexual history an attractive person?