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Trig Nov 09, 2024 at 08:43 AM
 
I am still shaken. This guy has been physically and sexually abusive with several women. He's a predator. I felt stalked the other day on Facebook by him. I am so glad I blocked him. Since we stopped dating well over a year ago, I've tried to keep the peace because we run in the same music scene. But then the latest stories I heard from his ex fiance, who told me that he had tackled her and broke her arm, it made me turn a corner. But still, I tried to keep the peace because he had never done anything negative or abusive to. me, personally, except for he became nasty when I broke up with him. Nasty to the point where I told him I would hang up the phone on him and leave the conversation. But that was the only time he had been difficult and negative towards me. So I tried to keep the peace for the peace's sake, and being Christian, but this latest act was the icing on the cake which flipped the switch for me. No more nicey nice from me to him. I will avoid him whenever I bump into him, and I do not care to say hello or speak to him. He's a cancer sore and not someone I will associate with. Period. Still, I am shaken by the experience this week with him coming at me with guns blazing over the election. I had been posting about feminist principles, and he attacked me. He is someone who doesn't respect women, so of course he came at me. I will stand for what I stand for though, and I do not take any crap from anyone. Not anymore.

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