After 33 years of marriage, leaving for me was the only way to stop the fighting. He was so financially irresponsible I couldn't be quiet about it. Yea, he hated what I had to say (but later on I found out from him that he hated that I was right). Ah well, he got his peace to live financially however he wanted & I got my peace to take my family inharitance & leave & live responsibly. In the end, he lost everything from the 33 year martiage on his own, not through divorce. I walked away & left him everything because I needed peace. Sometimes fighting is based on valid issues. Something to truly analyze. I have never been happier or more peaceful since leaving him & moving as far away as possible. There are usually reasons for fights that are worth looking into.....but sometimes the only relief is leaving. I am thankful I did