Welcome to MSF @lookingforhelp626 - sorry to hear the person you felt close to moved apart from you.

I can only guess what was happening with her, but it seems like you really had high expectations of the relationship blooming.

I am guessing that when you were thinking of taking a flight to see her, she met a guy that was in her city or nearby and they hit it off so that was something she went for rather than an online friendship.

I hope you can find a way to heal. I would not blame yourself. I do not think you could have acted differently under the circumstances.

CANDC

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