Welcome to MSF @cutman2000 - sorry to hear you are struggling to deal with life's challenges. That must be very stressful.

It sounds like your son created a mess - that is not your fault.

If you are having trouble coping with the taxes and the housework, what do you think about the idea of getting a tax preparer and a house cleaner to help you get back to a stable place?

Hope you get the support you are looking for.

CANDC

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