I’m not saying time heals all wounds for me, just makes it less painful. I found out things about my parents many years after their deaths. Some ugly truths. I don’t think that will EVER heal, regardless of time.

But with other deaths, I think of them often. Memories come up. I visit the grave of one of these people as often as I can. And “talk” as if they can hear me.

I agree with Nova about not avoiding it. If so it will suddenly hit you like a ton of bricks one day.

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