Sir i am sorry for what it is doing to u. I have bipolar and I am the same way I will pick men up and have sex with them and not remember the next day till I see some thing that reminds me of the night before I a working on my situation and I am getting help been back with my husband a few months only happened once and then I realized I needed additional help. won't let it happen any more(hopefully) in your wifes case I understand what she is going through to I have been there in her defense she really deos not mean to talk to that man I mean she is not in the right frame of mind. I have locked my self away i do not have any interaction with people until I feel more confident about me staying on my meds that is my problem I willnot take the meds and that is the worst thing u can do when I was first diagnosed I did not think it was that big of a deal I am strong minded I can deal with this but I list my job almost lost my kids and my family will not support mental issues. Best thing I can tell you is to be there for her and let her have it you are the one that will have to be firm I believe people with this illness need guidance they can not do it on their own. I am trying to and it is tuff. Sex is sex love is forever and if you found the woman you love do not let her go because she is mentally ill.