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Old Nov 24, 2024, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted by NovaBlaze View Post
Sounds a good plan. It’s not easy. If you find yourself tempted to unblock them then try and find a distraction task for a short time, read a book, watch a TV show, listen to a podcast, and then hopefully the temptation will pass.

Feelings and emotions can really tear you apart. You’re doing so well to cope, and I think that’s worthwhile acknowledging to yourself.

Small steps. Hour by hour.
@NovaBlaze, thank you... no, it's not easy, especially since I am not dating. I've kept them both blocked though, and I haven't been tempted to unblock. If I see pics of them together, it could upset me all over again. I don't need that.

Thank you for your advice.
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