I read both of your posts. I'm so sorry for your trauma, I had something similar. Get attached to a person who used me for his goals. And I tend to repeat this, unfortunately.
In my opinion, the therapist behaves inappropriately. Like the teacher in your story, except for little differences. You're repeating a traumatic experience.
No one therapist should ruin your boundaries or force you to remember traumatic episodes, if you don't want to, now. Presents are unprofessional, like other things you mentioned.
Report her and change the therapist immediately. There are a lot of professionals that can really help.