This holiday season is feeling a little different. The husband and I really aren’t speaking much anymore. I know it was wrong but I saw his phone and he was talking to his sister about me-which is fine if he needs to vent but there were comments from him such as “I don’t know what her deal is. She’s mad at the world”. I saw she asked him in the messages if I was on medication and he said yes. But he’s wrong about that. I am not on any mental health medications. I stopped those medications almost a year and half ago. The little that I read in the text messages it seems his sister was not bad mouthing me or anything. So today in the US for those who do not know-it’s Thanksgiving. I went to my moms and he came with but he mostly just sat in the living room watching football with my father while I was in the kitchen with my mother and sister. So minimal conversation between us. Then as I was giving my baby niece a bottle-he got his coat on to leave so he can go to his sisters and I asked my sister to move her car from behind mine so I can get out of the driveway. And we came home and I was in the bathroom and he said he’s going to his sisters. And he left to go without me. I’m sure he is having a nice time over there venting about me. I would have gone with him to his sisters but it seemed like he had no intention on waiting so..I’m home while he is there. I’m sure I’ll be labeled the horrible sister in law who couldn’t go over there after he was with me at my parents house. But he won’t end up telling them that he had no intentions on waiting for me.