I had an amazing night! I kissed a man, a man that I used to hook up with, and I also met a new guy all in the same night!! LOL. The old lover, well that was random and probably won't happen again for a long time. It was purely circumstantial and random that I ran into him when he was alone and when I was alone at the concert. He invited me to sit in a darker corner with him, taking my hand and leading me away from the new guy I had just met. So I sat with him in the corner, and eventually, our lips met and we made out. Then I went back to where I had been standing before when I met the new guy. I wanted to stand and dance. We were at a band. So I talked to the new guy as well, and we ended up going up front and dancing. The old lover doesn't mind me doing my own thing. He does his own thing because he's a videographer of bands so he's constantly moving around the floor taking pictures. I don't think he knows I also had interest in the new man I had just met. I didn't make it obvious... but the whole eve was so much fun. I feel very empowered to do as I please - of course, as long as no one gets hurt. The old lover is not a commitment. We have no commitment to each other and haven't in well over a year. In fact, we never had an openly stated commitment, so there's that.