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eskielover · Dec 02, 2024, 12:27 PM

I know when I went back to Calif & ran into my "still " husband the week before a court case I had against him, I knew how awesome my life was without him so it made it so much easier to just stick to business & facts without "seeing red" or yelling. I was in control & didn't let him phase me. I was actually able to ask some questions that for me provided understanding & closure & was what I had thought anyway but was good to hear out of him. I would never suggest doing this intentionally but it was the situation that happened & after 11 years of being away so I was well established in my new life. Lol....lies were told before the wedding so maybe these were lies too but they did make sense looking back at how bad the marriage had been & why fighting was necessary on my part. Had to laugh because his "friends" thought I was "coming back to him" like I guess he had hoped for so long but it seriously ended with me telling him I had never been so happy & peaceful in my life as I actually am in my life. That was finalized a few weeks later with the divorce in the state I live in & I basically just walked away from it all in Calif. He lost everything he wouldn't give up in a divorce I tried to file for before I left. No feeling sorry for him, he got what he wanted & deserved.

He is still lying (or maybe just stupid) about our names still being on the loan to the house no longer owned by us & I am footing the legal bill to get my name off that loan. He claimed to my daughter a few months ago that the investor who bought the house before the foreclosure auction was getting a new loan....NOT. But my lawyer will be filing a law suit against them all in the loan holder doesn't remove my name & they all will regret if it comes to that.

Lol....it does seem like bad penny's never really totally go away sometimes & we just get stronger & stronger dealing with it