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Originally Posted by MuddyBoots
Enough people here have told you this isn't a good relationship, and nothing you just wrote will change anybody's perspective. She's just justifying her abuse of position over you. "It's okay I remind you of someone who fked you up because I'm trying to get you comfortable with an action that traumatized you in the same way even though it makes you feel the same now as it did then," does that sound okay? Logically, step back out of your shoes, and ask if that sounds reasonable?
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I agree with this--it also jumps out as a big red flag to me. It should be up to you, 123Luke123, if you want a therapist to help you feel more comfortable with touch. It should only be done with prior agreement and your consent.
The thing is, your history is leading you to think it's OK, that there's something wrong with you for running away. When really, you're listening to the signals in your mind and body that are telling you something isn't right here. It also sounds like she's "love-bombing" you, which is something that abusers do. I understand wanting someone to care about you, I really do. But she sounds harmful. I'm sorry.